Category Archives: Autism

The Sweet Olympics

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When my special needs son was in kindergarten, I learned that his autism class would be participating in the Special Olympics.  I’m going to be blunt – that freaked me out big time.  I was still coming to terms with the fact that he hadn’t made it to the “mainstream” by kindergarten, which at the time was the end-all-be-all in our world.  We were convinced that if we did all the work and therapy humanly possible during the preschool years, he’d be ready for school.  I never really considered an alternative route, but there he was, in a self-contained special education classroom.   I was still processing my denial, so the timing wasn’t great for someone to suggest that he compete in the Special Olympics.  Yeah, I wasn’t happy. Continue reading The Sweet Olympics

Autism Angel: Jackie Moore

I met Jackie Moore when our kids were in school together. Her daughter Jordyn and Barrett were in the same class for four years. I affectionately dubbed them the prom king and queen, as they were the two who seemed to be the class ring leaders.   Jordyn is a vivacious child who I often observed teasing Barrett in a playfully engaging manner (and he usually played hard to get). I loved the fact that Jordyn never let Barrett intimidate her. More often than not, she successfully lured Bear out of his shell. Also, I think Barrett secretly loved the attention.

Jordan and Bear

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Autism Angel: Alicia Harris

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Alicia Harris was my son Barrett’s elementary school occupational therapist for three years. I’ll never forget the first time I met her, which happened to be in an IEP meeting – never an ideal setting, in my experienced personal opinion. She was young and full of energy and I loved how excited she was about her job. Then she told me a “Barrett story” and I wanted to crawl under the table.   She shared with us how unhappy Barrett was after she changed her shampoo (see interview below). Then she reluctantly relayed that he’d hit her after smelling her hair. Yes, you read that right – hit her. I’d never heard of him ever hitting someone before, and I was appalled. Alicia insisted it was a gentle hit, like a “love tap.” I’ll never know whether or not that was true, but Alicia’s genuine smile never faltered in the meeting (and she continued working with him for years). She actually laughed about it, assuring us that it all been worked out.   Now that, my friends, is dedication. Continue reading Autism Angel: Alicia Harris